Strange New Teacher

September 13, 2008

4.5 Week Progress Reports Bring Out The Angry Parents!

Filed under: Uncategorized — strangenewteacher @ 2:29 pm

I survived my 5th week of teaching! Whoo Hoo! I’m learning waaaaay more than I ever thought possible. Some days I love teaching, and there are a few days I question my carreer choice. I’m seriously hoping that’s normal for newbies.

I had a roller coaster ride of a week. Let’s start with Monday: after consulting with the 7th grade gifted LA teacher, I have decided to implement a Writer’s Notebook in my classes. They work well in her class, and she’s seeing some really great work. Now, my students are as far from gifted as I am from — I don’t know — a great singer, but I liked the concept of the notebook, and I was willing to give it a try.

Tuesday was uneventful, and then Wednesday emerged it’s ugle little head. When they came to class, all my students had their little composition books, ready to convert them into Writer’s Notebooks. I introduced the Writer’s Notebook concept and tried to get the kids really excited about this year-long project. I started passing out materials for the students to use to personalize the covers of their Notebooks when my principal entered my room. As fate would have it, she had picked that day to conduct my formal observation (1 of 3 for the year). Great. My principal observes me while I am conducting art class.

I’m still awaiting my report. She’s been in my classroom twice before for 5 minute observations, so I know she knows I actually teach content, but I’m still bummed. If she could have only come on Thursday. I had a great lesson planned on Thursday. Then, after the students had finally left, and I was just getting ready to settle into my classroom for a few hours of planning, my mentor teacher yells out, “Go home, Strangenewteacher! It’s 5:00!”

Seriously? I just got started. I told her I was going to stay a few hours to try to plan for next week. This sends her and another teacher into a 20 minute lecture on how I cannot stay at school until 6:30. The way I’m doing things is totally wrong. She comes in a 6 AM, and I need to do so as well. She doesn’t care that I’m not a morning person and it’s a struggle enough to make it to school by 8. Then my AP enters the conversation. He agrees that I’m working too hard. I am wrong by planning for next week — I should have the next 4 weeks planned by now. 

At that point, I shut down. I have been teaching for 4.5 weeks, but I’m supposed to already have the rest of the quarter planned out? There’s no way. I was feeling so attacked by being yelled at by 3 people at once that I cried. Yup. Because apparently I’m not as strong and prefessional as I wanted to be. I guess they realized I was overwhelmed because they left. Gone in 3.5 seconds. I swear I saw smoke trailing them. The next morning, there was a card on my desk: “Sorry we were so pushy. We were wrong.”

4.5 week progress reports also went out on Wednesday. I am amazed at these parents. I send home electronic progress reports every week, and I hear nothing. I send home the big deal, and I get 73 emails the next day: enraged parents demanding to know why Little Johnny got a 0 for three classwork grades, and why I won’t let him make up those grades? Ummmm … because this work was completed in class, and Little Johnny refused to do the work because he was way too concerned with throwing paper balls across the room?

Then, yesterday, my AP calls me into his office to tell me a parent complained about me because I refused to let students make up classwork grade they had received 0s for. She said it is obvious I don’t care about her son. AP told me he was on my side, but that complaint has to go into my file. Well, isn’t that just freaking fabulous.

8 Comments »

  1. #1–In case anyone asks, the decorated covers are a visual idea page. If you have a student who is stumped on a coming up with a new topic, look at what they’ve drawn or written on their covers. Should be many ideas there!

    #2–If someone thinks you should have your lessons finished 4 weeks in advance, you should have a mentor from whom you can borrow many of those plans. You are probably just getting the hang of the pacing, right? I don’t believe in having weeks of plans ahead of time, but I do believe in general unit plans. So many things change from day to day and week to week!

    #3–As big of a pain that it is to deal with irate parents, it’s good to have those experiences under your belt. If nothing else, we veteran teachers wear the badges of those battles in the teachers’ lounge. Gives you some tough skin!

    #4–Stress get to many of us. That’s why we blog. :-)

    HANG IN THERE!

    Comment by HappyChyck — September 14, 2008 @ 5:17 am

  2. For the first time ever I am teaching multimedia. I am one day ahead of the students and feels fortunate at that. Four weeks???? Who does that? What if the kids don’t understand the material? What if a crisis occurs? What if you decide the day is too beautiful to waste on verb conjugation? Sheesh.

    Comment by dkzody — September 14, 2008 @ 2:15 pm

  3. Oh, Geez Louise. Parents, huh? This is why so many of our students end up stupid and lazy. Parents–Helicopter and otherwise! BTW, on a completely different subject, it’s that time of week again–Silly Sunday Sweepstakes time. Come on over and play along!

    Comment by Melissa B. — September 14, 2008 @ 2:24 pm

  4. Hello. My name is Edgar and I’m an editor at OpposingViews.com, the debate website. Since we both cover education issues, I thought I’d drop you a note. I would’ve e-mailed you but I couldn’t find an address.
    See, we’re currently having a discussion about whether or not homeschooled kids are at a disadvantage. You can see it here:
    http://www.opposingviews.com/questions/are-homeschooled-kids-at-a-disadvantage
    Although vetted experts are the ones doing the debating, anyone can contribute by choosing a side and posting comments about the experts’ arguments.
    Check it out and, if you have the time, let me know what you think at eacosta@opposingviews.com
    Thanks!

    Comment by Edgar — September 18, 2008 @ 6:22 pm

  5. I wish you were my kids teacher (okay – she’s only in 4th grade but… ) I e-mailed her teacher to get an idea of how she was doing in class (you know… being proactive and involved) and I got “She’s doing fine if I remember correctly”… um.. If you Remember Correctly? You have 22 students… I realize that’s a clump of kids but “if I remember correctly” isn’t very reassuring… :)

    Keep your chin up!!!!

    Comment by Lizzy — September 23, 2008 @ 7:52 pm

  6. I wish my kids’ parents cared more about their grades. I only had one set of parents check on their kid’s failing grade in my class. And I have over 80 students.

    I do also stress about the planning. I plan on the weekend for the next week. I don’t have time to plan any more than that (other than plans I have in my head).

    Comment by Miss W — September 27, 2008 @ 3:02 am

  7. I too am a new teacher- and planning more than 1 week at a time is almost impossible. I wonder which is worse- having 73 emails from over anxious parents or not a single one!? There just never seems to be a balance. Teacher’s either work with populations that are over involved or not involved at all.

    Comment by RB — October 11, 2008 @ 4:58 am

  8. Don’t let the other teachers stress you out. I am a year 4 teacher–and it seems like yesterday that I was just starting. I am an afternoon/night time planner too. At 6 in the morning, I am doing good to get 2 matching socks. I like to plan for the next week. I have a general idea of where I would like for my students to be in 4 weeks, but nothing concrete. I think that good teaching is responding to students needs and being flexible.
    And the progress report thing never changes. It is always like a big surprise for both students and parents. Some how the 0s that they received in class are surprising and upsetting when they are printed neatly in a column. I call progress reports “The Scheduled Day of Annoyance.” There is a great quote that I have taped in the bottom of my desk drawer in my classroom. It says “Teaching is the ability to listen to anything and not lose your temper or your confidence.” Some days I feel like I am changing the world–progress report day, I feel like I am doing good to not lose my temper or my confidence. I like to schedule myself something nice for those days–like planning to get an ice cream sunday or haircut afterschool.
    I also keep an “Ego Book”–when students or parents write me nice notes or create a work that is particularly successful (where I can tell that they are better because of the work I did)–I stash it in the book. It is my secret book–but I get it out on days when I feel discouraged or overwhelmed. I think every teacher should have one.

    Comment by another teacher — May 16, 2009 @ 3:41 am


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